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The Art of Gwynneth Horn - my Mom

My Mom would sit and work on a piece of art for a long time, carefully putting each little aspect into the scene.  Gwynny managed to keep each piece alive and exciting - a certain sense of magic is evident in each art work.

When we LET GO we RECEIVE

4/5/2014

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Mommy's Wedding Dress


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For many years I carried my Mom's wedding dress with me through many moves.  Then, just a couple of months ago I decided that it was time that this fragile wedding dress find a place to show itself, outside of the box in which it had arrived in 1955.

With tears I let the dress go, telling myself that the memories and Love live in my Heart.  I looked at it one more time, with tears streaming I asked the Angels to please take this dress to a beautiful home where it would be honored and admired.  It went to an antique shop in Plettenberg Bay, South Africa.
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Ted Horn and Gwynneth on their wedding day
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Little Gwynneth Davey a precious and adored child who spoke in a lilting manner in Old English that confounded her family. A gentle and Old Spirit doing a Life Journey of Love.
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Some of my Mom's little Treasures from her childhood, stored in an old Nestle' chocolate box.
As we move through this Life we gather and accumulate the moments that record memorable events and occasions. 

Then there comes a time when we will have to leave these behind as the Soul moves beyond this Realm.  

Like markers of Being these precious relics drift into the back of cupboards of our children and loved ones.  

There will come a time when someone will need to make the painful decision to disconnect from the possession and agree to hold the Love in the Memories of the Heart and not the dusty box in which they reside.


​Great Upheaval, Intense Emotions

After 14 years, my husband, Dad and I found a place to once again call home.   

To celebrate our move my Dear Friend Pam took me to lunch at a lovely place that was new to me - Ouland Royale in Plettenberg Bay.  As we arrived I could feel a sense of delight and kept remarking to Pam that this place is somewhere that my darling Mom would have loved.  The garden was delightful and as we entered the open space, filled with beautiful displays, hats, lamps and art, I again had to say how special this place felt. We glanced at the menu and I had to choose one of my Mom's favorite dishes - Potato Leek Soup, made by the gorgeous owner Wilja Reitz.  We sauntered about, playing with the magical hats created by Wilja and all the while I kept feeling my Mom's Spirit.
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Pam and Joy being silly in the adorned and beautifully designed hats created by Wilja.
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And there was the box that had held the dress through many moves to Colorado and back - this wedding dress, free at last to glow as it did one day back in 1955.

Like an Angel there it stood

As we turned to the next beautiful display, there stood this ethereal wedding dress.  For a moment I just felt a knot in my throat and then without thinking I said to Pam - this is my Mom's wedding dress - I remember the little buttons on the sleeves when I had worn the dress as a child, the softness of the skirt and the delicacy of the lace. Only, now it looked different - Regal and Ethereal. I began to doubt myself and then glanced down and saw the round box it had lived in for 59 years.
Sobs of delight and gratitude, this beautiful dress that belonged to my Gracious and Beautiful Mom had a new home.  The Angels had nudged Wilja to bring it to this charming location where, like my mother, it would Grace the space in which it stood. Here to remind us that Life's passage is short and Precious beyond words.  And that in all occasions we need to celebrate the passing of our Life Journey.

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My Mom

Thank you Wilja for the gift of bringing my Mom's wedding gown to your beautiful place that she would have just LOVED.  May the Spirit of my Mom be in your beautiful venue and May you and all who share memorable experiences in the space at Ouland Royale feel Divine Blessings.
When we Let Go we Receive

I would never have imagined that letting go of my Mom's wedding dress would impact so poignantly in my life.   My Dad called my Mom his Queen and it is as if her spirit holds a space of regal dignity at Ouland Royale.   
My Dad, Ted Horn woo'ed my mother with song as this he thought is what one has to do to get the attention of the girl you love, so after watching Mario Lanza sing in the movies he swept my Mom off her feet with his magnificent voice.  

I grew up to the sound of my Dad singing and when we lived in Colorado I would phone home and ask Daddy to sing to me.  Then one year Teddy did a quick recording of his singing to bring to me as a gift.  It is one of my most cherished gifts.  I share it with you x 
Listen to my Dad's song to his "Queen"

The Journey of our Lives is all about Release - this is the most pivotal aspect of this Life Journey.  My Mom helped to open up this awareness - in Life and in her passing.  The story of release is a holding theme in Joy's book - A Journey to Remember: Recapturing the Unique Codes of our Magnificence.  Available from Amazon.  
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Gwynneth Myrtle Davey Horn's wedding dress



​The Perfume of my Mom -
I put some on my wrist, close my eyes and feel you near

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Moments of Memories
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Gwynny's favorite perfume - L'air du Temps by Nina Ricci


​Thank you Wilja

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​Angels recognise Angels 
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11 Comments
Manda Hobbs
4/5/2014 02:05:05 pm

Oh Joy, this was absolutely wonderful to read! So gentle and such tender memories...! I just loved and enjoyed it so much.... Thank you for sharing....
Lots of Love,
Manda...xxx

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pamela j stevens
4/5/2014 04:01:30 pm

Joy we have been listening to Teddy sing and reading the site and going down memory lane, what a wonderful way to spend the evening. You have put it all together so beautifully. A little bit of magic!
Much love
Pam

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Irene Brand link
4/5/2014 08:47:21 pm

With tears in my eyes and the warmth of the Love for your Mommy's memory once again you gave her a Place of Honor. Her Treasures became your treasures now it is ours too because you are all about Love. I'm sure Mommy is looking down at the spot you and Wilja picked out for her best treasure and is smiling! Thank you Wilja for Opening this Beautiful Space.......

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Angela Williams
4/7/2014 08:07:15 am

What a true joy to see my favourite cousin Gwyn pictures! She was always my guiding light in my life! The last time I spoke to her I shared that with her and I know it gave us both great joy! I still have very precious memories of Teddy and Gwynnys wedding day in the garden at Granny and Grampa's house in Eastleigh! Many things sadly gone but the memories remain.
Joy Bell your words are so true! When we let go go we receive! We do indeed! In ways we will never belive possible!
Ang

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Caryl Vaughan-Scott link
4/7/2014 12:08:20 pm

Dearest Joy, through Pam, my forever friend, I have known the most beautiful story of 'The Wedding Dress'. It would make a wonderful children's story!
Her paintings are breathtaking, her face is so

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margie
9/8/2014 12:32:10 pm

I am sitting in Holland with tears in my eyes. Gonna find a blue candle and light her a candle with love and light

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gail
9/8/2016 10:58:25 pm

Joy.
your dad could really sing.
wow.

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Anne Smith
9/9/2016 06:37:06 am

Thank you for sharing these glorious and touching memories with strangers - so special.

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Elaine Finkelstein link
9/9/2016 10:27:17 am

Precious Joy-Full. Words escape me. Thank you for sharing the beauty and pain of being human so eloquently, and for letting the light shine on the love, warmth, and the wonderful bonds that have been your gifts. In release, in letting go, let us hope that we may all rise to the magnificence of your mother's wedding dress.

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Margot
1/6/2018 05:03:53 am

Oh Joy this is such a wonderfully written sharing of your experiences and memories, and so beautifully describes your precious Mum. I can remember her so well and with such fondness I reflect back on the hours spent painting together in the studio in Edenvale. Such very very special memories!!
What a fitting new place for the spirit (and wedding dress) of your precious, beautiful Gwynn to enthrall others. Sending you so much love!

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Stephne Roche
4/16/2018 06:30:50 am

What a beautiful tribute to your mother Joy!
It invoked the treasured memories of my own mother Chick ( a less formal rendition of her real name, Henriette)
She shared your mother's perfume ... L'air du temps ...which she wore fragrantly every day and she shared a beautiful, mezzo voice with Teddy. xxx

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